Interpersonal Relationship: Mastering The Skills Of Refusing Others

In social interaction, it is difficult for women to say "no" directly, but sometimes they have to refuse each other, which requires women to master the skills of rejection.

First, ask the refusal to be kind.

Don't flatly refuse when others ask for a request.

It is not advisable to take a quick rebuttal to others' request, or to express an unpleasant look, or to despise the other person and to insist on a completely uncompromising attitude.

Refuse to be honest and tell the truth.

It is impossible to make a clear statement and adopt ambiguous statements, which makes the other party fail to understand their true meaning and produce many unnecessary misunderstandings, which will easily lead to the breakdown of their relationship.

Don't hurt your partner's self-esteem when you refuse.

Especially for those who are gracious enough to visit you, it is very hard to refuse.

However, as long as you can show respect for the wishes of the other side and speak out your difficulties, you will be convinced.

If you refuse your partner, you should leave a retreat for the other person, that is, save face for the other person, so that you can let him down the ladder himself.

You must listen to the other person's speech patiently from beginning to end. When you hear the other person's speech completely, you should have an idea. When you persuade the other person again, you will not embarrass the other party.

Some refuses, and can not put it to death, especially in the business world. Let the other side know that this rejection is the next opportunity.

If you are very sure of your refusal, you can only sit face to face with the other side.

If you deal with a difficult person and refuse him, you'd better avoid it.

Direct contact, select the location of oblique and horizontal.

When you know how to choose a place to reject each other, you have to consider the timing.

Sometimes, procrastination for some time and careful choice of opportunities will make the former tense situation completely changed. This is also a rejection of human skills.

If a certain

When you show love to you and you don't like to accept it, you can use the procrastination to say "no".

He invites you to dance, you can reply like this: "later, I have time to ask you."

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You might as well try it in the following ways.

- deliberately evasive.

If you say "yes", you may be afraid that she will have a misunderstanding, or you can tell her directly.

I'm afraid this is not very good for me.

Try to avoid it.

"I didn't see clearly," "I didn't notice".

- deliberately delay.

"I have something to do tonight, I'll talk about it later."

- keep silent.

"Let me think it over."

- another option.

"Good is good, but I prefer..."

Politely refuse.

"I understand your feelings very well. It's not good for you or me."

Generally speaking, those who refuse to gain the upper hand are the ones who are rejected by others.

When people are rejected, everything should be opened up. Since it is useless to say more, it is better to retreat in a beautiful and crisp manner.

Although it is impossible for you to be happy when you are rejected by others, you should take the overall situation into consideration and try to smile and leave a good impression on the other side.

Sometimes, refusing is not a censure. You still need to work hard to get an end.

If you don't lose heart, do not complain and pay attention to the aftermath, you may succeed next time.